I am afraid the question was discussed already in many ways. Many solutions were proposed and many were shot down for good reasons. The conclusions were always simple:
- No one else but OP can decide if a solution is valid for OP.
- Since OP is not the only one to valuevote on an answer, the problem is relatively small. Sooner or later, a good answer will find its "voters".
- As soon as at least one of the answers has at least one voteupvote, the question is considered to be answered.
Furthermore, I am having difficulties with the thought that every minor problem would the result of some kind of a "bad intention". Remember the rules here are a bit different from what most people are used to, and we all started with creating an account for a single question or answer.
The fact that some users do not vote on- or mark their question is probably in most cases the result of not being familiar with how things work here. Also in most cases, a friendly reminder, or just inquiring if (one of) the answer(s) did work is enough to "bring OP to live". If not, It might be annoying to you, but objectively, it means nothing.