I am afraid the question was discussed already in many ways. Many solutions were proposed and many were shot down for good reasons. The conclusions were always simple:

- No one else but OP can decide if a solution is valid *for* OP.
- Since OP is not the only one to value an answer, the problem is relatively small. Sooner or later, a good answer will find its "voters".
- As soon as at least one of the answers has at least one vote, the question is considered to be answered.

Furthermore, I am having difficulties with the thought that every minor problem would the result of some kind of a "bad intention". Remember the rules here are a bit different from what most people are used to, and we all started with creating an account for a single question or answer. 

The fact that some users do not vote on- or mark their question is probably in most cases the result of not being familiar with how things work here. Also in most cases, a friendly reminder, or just inquiring if (one of) the answer(s) *did* work is enough to "bring OP to live". If not, It might be annoying to you, but objectively, it means nothing.